"The knife that I have looks like only half of it was sharpened."
That may be the crux of the problem. I wonder how many oboe students give up reed making because they don't know how to properly sharpen their knives. I wonder how many turners get discouraged because their turning tools are not sharp; how many woodworkers never get good results with their dull tools, and how many cooks muddle along with dull knives.
You have the opportunity to share a very important skill for reed making with your daughter (in addition to driving and funding the operation!).
I have enjoyed this conversation, also.
Ken